I’m just going to make this clear for everyone on tumblr who it applies to and for the couple people who I know personally that follow my tumblr for interest.
Don’t ask me out on a date right now, don’t tell me you want me, don’t ask me sexual questions, don’t ask me for sexual favours. I’m not interested.
If you ask me out for coffee or dinner and I say no but thank you anyway, that means no but thank you anyway.
I have had a hard time relationship wise recently and emotionally I’m drained. I’m drained by the constant persistence of the few guys out there that won’t take no for an answer.
You might think I’m being mean and rejection is horrible and I’m a selfish cow. But every rejection is hard and ruins my day too because I give a shit about you and your feelings. I don’t want to hurt you or anyone. I want all the people who like me enough to ask to find happiness and find love, but I’m not that girl. If it’s painful for all involved, why ask again and again?
Please understand, I need to be left alone for a while.
Thank you everyone for being kind to me, I love your messages and I pay attention to every single ask I get. I am approachable and I am friendly, I’ll answer whatever you’d like to know just please don’t ask inappropriate questions. You won’t get an answer you’re looking for. I’m sorry.